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Advice

Guidance, tools, and frameworks to help you live a better life.

The Highlight
How to tolerate uncertainty in a world that’s full of itHow to tolerate uncertainty in a world that’s full of it
The Highlight

Not knowing what’s going to happen is the worst. It’s also really good for us.

By Elizabeth Weingarten
Advice
What’s the difference between fashionably late and straight-up rude? We asked three experts.What’s the difference between fashionably late and straight-up rude? We asked three experts.
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Here’s how much of a buffer you really have.

By Allie Volpe
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Should you cancel those plans? Here are 5 questions to help you decide.Should you cancel those plans? Here are 5 questions to help you decide.
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The definitive guide to bailing on your friends.

By Allie Volpe
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Is it okay to be intentionally ignorant?Is it okay to be intentionally ignorant?
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A new — surprisingly peaceful — way to think about information and knowledge.

By Shayla Love
Technology
The iPhone lease is too good to be trueThe iPhone lease is too good to be true
Technology

Apple partnered with Klarna to let you lease a new iPhone. But should you?

By Adam Clark Estes
Future Perfect
Should you keep practicing a religion even if you don’t believe?Should you keep practicing a religion even if you don’t believe?
Future Perfect

You can outgrow a belief without outgrowing the people who gave it to you.

By Shayla Love
Future Perfect
How do you know if you’re wasting your life?How do you know if you’re wasting your life?
Future Perfect

You were told you’d change the world. But there’s a better way to think about your potential.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
How to be a good roomie — regardless of where you are in lifeHow to be a good roomie — regardless of where you are in life
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Expert advice on how to live with other people.

By Allie Volpe
Life
The surprisingly undisciplined trick to escaping social mediaThe surprisingly undisciplined trick to escaping social media
Life

Routines aren’t the key to healthy habits. Indulgence is.

By Constance Grady
Future Perfect
How to slow down time when life keeps speeding upHow to slow down time when life keeps speeding up
Future Perfect

Skydiving or watching the grass grow? Psychologists and Buddhists explain how we can stretch our time.

By Shayla Love
How to protect yourself from the diarrhea-causing parasite wreaking havoc across the US
Health

Cyclosporiasis has sickened some 4,000 Americans so far this year.

By Dylan Scott
Advice
How to keep your cool when it feels like everything is going wrongHow to keep your cool when it feels like everything is going wrong
Advice

Bad days are inevitable. A meltdown doesn’t have to be.

By Allie Volpe
How singing with other people can help you move through grief and despair
Advice

When you feel terrible — or just numb — singing can be easier than talking.

By Casper ter Kuile
Future Perfect
I care a lot about climate change. Does that mean I can never ever fly?I care a lot about climate change. Does that mean I can never ever fly?
Future Perfect

My extreme self-sacrifice is making me resent my friends who fly all the time.

By Sigal Samuel
The people next door
Why neighbor feuds bring out the absolute worst in usWhy neighbor feuds bring out the absolute worst in us
The people next door

And what you can do to keep petty drama from escalating into all-out warfare.

By Julia Sullivan
The people next door
How to tell your neighbor they’re annoying youHow to tell your neighbor they’re annoying you
The people next door

Your anonymous note probably isn’t going to help.

By Alex Abad-Santos
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The lazy but incredibly effective way to stay in touch with friendsThe lazy but incredibly effective way to stay in touch with friends
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Time to spam your friends with photos.

By Allie Volpe
The people next door
The drama-free guide to gossiping with your neighborsThe drama-free guide to gossiping with your neighbors
The people next door

Dishing with your neighbors is a time-honored tradition. Here’s how to do it without getting messy.

By Allie Volpe
Advice
No one knows how to deal with anyone else’s kids anymoreNo one knows how to deal with anyone else’s kids anymore
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Interacting with children has gotten a lot less intuitive, even if you’re a parent yourself.

By Allie Volpe
How to actually get to know your neighbors
The people next door

Don’t be nervous! Befriending them is easier than you think and could meaningfully improve your life.

By Julia Sullivan
Your Ring camera isn’t stopping crime. But it might be making you paranoid.
The people next door

Doorbell surveillance is undermining neighborly relationships.

By Allie Volpe
Why “neighborism” is having a moment
The people next door

After decades of social isolation, people are realizing proximity is a resource.

By Sara Radin
Future Perfect
Should you quit social media?Should you quit social media?
Future Perfect

What if your real power to influence is actually…offline?

By Shayla Love
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Why summer slips away so quicklyWhy summer slips away so quickly
Advice

If you’re already stressed about the end of the season, you’re not alone.

By Allie Volpe
Explain It to Me
Four easy ways to live longerFour easy ways to live longer
Podcast
Explain It to Me

“Longevity” doesn’t need to be an elaborate science experiment.

By Jonquilyn Hill
A new, low-stakes way to combat loneliness and make friends
The Highlight

Activity fairs give shy and hesitant people permission to participate.

By Allie Volpe
Culture
Why this summer is the perfect time to start caring about sportsWhy this summer is the perfect time to start caring about sports
Culture

We’re watching the World Cup, stanning Serena Williams, and rooting for the WNBA’s rookies — no prior fan experience required.

By Alex Abad-Santos
The Highlight
You don’t need better boundaries. You need a better framework.You don’t need better boundaries. You need a better framework.
The Highlight

“Setting boundaries” is broken — but there’s a different way to think about caring for yourself and others.

By Sigal Samuel
Advice
Feel like a late bloomer? You’re not alone.Feel like a late bloomer? You’re not alone.
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Traditional milestones are still attainable — just on a longer timeline.

By Allie Volpe
How to pray when you don’t believe in God
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And why you should.

By Casper ter Kuile
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How to turn casual friends into close onesHow to turn casual friends into close ones
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Building platonic intimacy takes intention, creativity, and a little vulnerability.

By Kyndall Cunningham
Future Perfect
First comes marriage. Then comes a flirtatious colleague.First comes marriage. Then comes a flirtatious colleague.
Future Perfect

What to do when your partner wants an open marriage and you don’t.

By Sigal Samuel
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Why you shouldn’t use ChatGPT to mediate fights with your partnerWhy you shouldn’t use ChatGPT to mediate fights with your partner
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“She’s conveying this stuff and I’m like, ‘Wow, you really think that?’ And she’s like, ‘Well, no, not really.’”

By Allie Volpe
Future Perfect
I don’t want children. I do want children. What should I do?I don’t want children. I do want children. What should I do?
Future Perfect

How can you know if you truly want to be a parent?

By Sigal Samuel
Explain It to Me
Don’t let being a renter stop you from home improvementDon’t let being a renter stop you from home improvement
Podcast
Explain It to Me

When you should — and shouldn’t — DIY your home, explained.

By Jonquilyn Hill
Future Perfect
A DNA test upended my family. Do I side with my grandmother — or her secret child?A DNA test upended my family. Do I side with my grandmother — or her secret child?
Future Perfect

I don’t know what I owe my newfound relative.

By Sigal Samuel
The Highlight
What twins can teach us about friendshipWhat twins can teach us about friendship
The Highlight

They grow up together, but are twins destined to share a social network?

By Allie Volpe
Life
Why so many people are talking about “holding trauma in your jaw” right nowWhy so many people are talking about “holding trauma in your jaw” right now
Life

Unclench your jaw and unlock your emotions?

By Allie Volpe
The Highlight
Should you feel guilty for killing the bugs in your house?Should you feel guilty for killing the bugs in your house?
The Highlight

Insects may feel pain. Do you have a moral duty to protect them from harm?

By Sigal Samuel
You can do everything right and things can still go wrong. “Moral luck” is a way to live with that.
Future Perfect

This radical philosophical idea can free you from a lifetime of unnecessary guilt.

By Sigal Samuel